Don’t Do It

Catching up on BB After and I am genuinely confused. Why is she acting like she pulled a prize out of the claw machine? LOL

This man is 38, lives with his mom, doesn't have a car, and casually admits he basically doesn't have a place of his own to live... and she's grinning like she found an eligible bachelor. Girl you found a dependent.

At 20? Sure. At 30? Life happens. But at 38, I need there to be evidence that adulthood has at least made contact with you. A lease. A retirement account. A vehicle in your own name. Hell, a Costco card. SOMETHING. That is not a flex.

And I'm sorry, but I also could not date a man who looks like he weighs less than me. I need a man who looks like he could move a dresser without calling his mother first. She looks HUGE next to him. 

Once you hit a certain age, butterflies are cute, but stability is hotter. I want a 401k, decent credit, and somebody who knows when the oil was last changed in his car.

Not a 38-year-old houseguest who still needs a Big Brother. LOL